The issue here is whether or not you feel deep, committed love, or if its just some sort of filial love as in you look at your husband as a “brother” rather than as a man in a marriage with you.
There has to be a great deal of emotional and physical intimacy, it isn’t just sex of course. Physical intimacy means physical affection, proximity; and enjoying each other’s company.
But if you do not feel that attraction anymore, then that’s a sign of problems.
Now if you feel you lost the